BidTheBar One list. Every local store bids on it.

One list. Every local store bids on it.

For weddings, corporate parties, holiday parties and large events: build your exact alcohol list once, local liquor stores compete on that same list, and you pick the best total — then see what that bar would have cost through a caterer.

Free delivery from the winning store Unopened bottles picked up for a full refund Stores bid blind — you see the totals side by side
Calculate what you need Get my list quoted Free for customers — no account, nothing saved.
A wooden event bar set with wine bottles, a sparkling bottle on ice, and rows of glasses at golden hour

How it works

Four steps, no phone tag, no guessing how much to buy.

1

Plan your bar

Use the calculator below to build one exact list — bottles, cases, ice and mixers — sized to your guests, hours, and bar style.

2

Stores bid blind

Local licensed stores get the identical list and bid on it within 48 hours. They can't see each other's prices — or your name — so they bid their real best.

3

Compare side by side

Anonymised totals — Store A, B, C — with each store's distance and delivery details. Store names are revealed only once you pick a winner.

4

Delivered & picked up

The winner delivers free before your event and picks up anything sealed and unopened afterwards. You only keep — and pay for — what you actually opened.

1

Build your exact list

Pick an event type to load sensible defaults — every setting stays adjustable.

Everyone invited, drinkers and non-drinkers alike.

From the first pour to last call.

Drinking pace

A daytime or older crowd runs light; a late-night dancing crowd runs heavy.

Bar type

Bottle tier (affects cost estimate only)

Quantities stay the same — only the price per drink changes.

Signature cocktails

Each signature cocktail shifts more of the list into spirits.

Sparkling toast One toast pour for every drinking guest.
Add a 10% safety buffer Running dry is the one unforgivable party sin. On this platform the winning store picks up unopened bottles for a full refund — so the buffer costs you nothing if you don't open it.
2

Your list — and what you save

One identical list — this is the exact list every store bids on, so quotes are apples-to-apples.

0 total drinks 0 per drinking guest

Quantities are rounded up to whole bottles and cases — nobody ever ran out because of a rounding error in their favour. With the buffer on, the headline number is what you buy; the smaller number is the calculated need.

What you save vs. a caterer

Buying retail — your side
Alcohol at retail
Bartenders
Mixers, ice & garnishes $1.50 per drinking guest
Your estimated total

Caterer / venue bar package
$ per guest, or a total of $

Got a real quote? Type it in — per guest or total, either way. The default is a typical package price for the bar type and tier you picked.

Add 20% service / gratuity Most caterer and venue quotes add this on top — leave it on if yours does.
Caterer / venue total
Kept honest: a caterer package usually bundles staff, glassware, setup and cleanup. This comparison already charges your side for bartenders and mixers/ice/garnishes (the lines above), so it's like-for-like on bar service — what's left is the alcohol markup you're not paying.

For context, not a promise: the average venue bar-service spend in Rhode Island is about $3,186 per wedding (2024 Wedding Report data), and retail alcohol for a wedding nationally typically runs $2,800–$3,200.

We don't tack on a made-up "bidding discount." Your estimate above is a planning number — stores then bid on this exact list, and the final saving is locked in by that competition, plus free delivery and free pickup of unopened returns.

3

Get this exact list quoted

Fill this in and the page sends one complete request — your details plus the list above — to the BidTheBar pilot team, and gives you a copyable summary for your own records.

Please add your name so stores know who the quote is for.

That email doesn't look complete — quotes come back by email.

Please pick your event date — stores bid against it.

Prefilled from the calculator above — change either one and they stay in step.

Stores are matched by distance to the event, not to you.

Venue allows outside alcohol

This only works where outside alcohol is allowed — private property, BYO-friendly venues, and caterers who let you supply the bar. If your venue runs its own bar, their package is the only option there.

Plainly: this page is a pilot front door. When you press “Send my request,” your details and your list go to the BidTheBar pilot team, who handle pilot quotes personally. Nothing is sold on this page, and no store sees your name until you pick a winner.

Your request summary

This is the complete document stores will quote from — your details, the exact list, and the estimated totals. Copy it now:

What happens in the pilot: requests are handled personally, not by an app. The pilot team has this summary now and will coordinate your quotes. When stores bid, you'll get anonymised totals side by side within about 48 hours, and you pay the winning store directly — never the platform.

Run a liquor store? Bid on events like these.

Stores on the platform pay a flat subscription — $149/month at the founding rate — and keep 100% of every sale. No percentage of sales, ever. You set your own prices, you're the seller of record, and you collect payment directly from the customer.

Founding recruitment for the Newport–Providence pilot opens with the pilot plan — contact details for store sign-ups will be added here.

Questions, answered straight

Do stores really deliver free and take back unopened bottles?

Yes — that's a platform standard the winning store agrees to before it can bid. Delivery to your event is free, and after the event the store picks up anything sealed and unopened (undamaged labels, kegs untapped) within 7 days and refunds it in full to your original payment. That's exactly why the calculator's 10% safety buffer is safe to keep on: overbuying costs you nothing.

Who do I pay?

The winning store, directly. The store is the licensed seller of record: it sets its price, takes your payment, delivers, checks 21+ ID, and handles the returns refund. The platform never sells alcohol and never takes payment for it — it organises the quotes.

Can I use this for a corporate or holiday party?

Yes — it's not weddings only. Corporate parties, holiday parties, large birthdays, and fundraisers all work the same way: one list, stores bid, winner delivers and picks up returns. Pick your event type at the top of the calculator and the defaults adjust — corporate events run shorter with a beer-and-wine-heavier mix, and they repeat every year.

What if my venue has its own bar?

Then this isn't for that venue. Venues that run their own licensed bar generally require you to buy through them. This works where outside alcohol is allowed: private homes and estates, BYO-friendly venues and barns, and caterers who let you supply the alcohol. If you're not sure, ask the venue before you request quotes — there's a "Not sure" option on the form.

How much does the service cost me?

Nothing, for customers, during the pilot. Stores pay a flat monthly subscription to be on the platform — that's how the platform earns, instead of taking a percentage of your alcohol bill. Your price is the store's bid, full stop.

The math, in the open

Every number on this page comes from these assumptions, so a store — or a sceptical father of the bride — can audit them: